Since I just came out of the closet recently and told my friends and family that I am gay; I m finding it a bit difficult to get out there and start dating. What I want is an easier way to meet men who are gay; and perhaps I can then starting dating one of them. I m wanting to find some men to date; and maybe with online gay dating I ll be able to find a good guy to spend more time with. My big hope is to find some good guys with online gay dating (gay dating web sites) and maybe I ll get some hot dates and then things will go on.