There are good relationships and bad relationships. In a good relationship there is more fun than fighting and no verbal or physical abuse. Both partners work to build up and maintain the relationship, and it gets stronger over time. Yet many relationships do not last, and the breakup of any relationship, even a bad one, can be heartbreaking, depressing, and stressful. It is difficult to give up on something and someone in which you invested so much time and emotion. The decision to try to Save Your Relationship, however, should not be made simply to stop the current misery, because it may commit you to more unhappiness in the future. Really think about how you felt during your past relationship, and if your ex’s actions caused you more sadness than joy, move on. You will never be able to create a good relationship with a mentally unstable person.